Some of the best conversations my son and I have ever had have happened in the car. There’s something about the open road (or, in my case, the endless loop of errands) that makes him loosen up and actually talk. But let’s not get too sentimental—because there are also those days when he climbs in, immediately adjusts my passenger seat into a position that defies both physics and common sense and responds to every question with a barely audible monosyllabic grunt.
As the proud and weary parent of teenagers, I know a thing or two about learning to read the room—or, in this case, the vehicle. Timing, mood, and the gravitational pull of distractions all play a role in whether they feel like talking or not. And sometimes, the best way to get them to open up is to stop trying so hard.
For me, that’s where good movies come in.
If you’ve ever tried to get your teenager to really talk, you know it’s a delicate dance. Ask too many questions, and they retreat like you’re conducting a police interrogation. Say too little, and the moment’s gone. But you know what works every time? A good movie.
Well, okay. A movie works some of the time. Occasionally. When the moon and hormones align. But hey, you gotta believe – so we take our wins where we can get them.
Cracking the Code to Teenageria—One Movie at a Time
The right film has a way of sneaking past their defenses. It can spark conversations you didn’t even know they were ready to have. And since the terrain in the land of Teenageria is a wild one—those teen years are full of shifting moods, TikTok trends, mysterious inside jokes, and a fridge that is never full enough—we, as parents, have to use any means necessary to infiltrate their carefully guarded world.
Mind you, this isn’t without risk. Imagine if your parents had interrupted The Breakfast Club. Or used Ferris Bueller’s Day Off to wax poetic about peer pressure or the sex lives of older kids. And movie choice matters. When your little girl has outgrown Harry Potter and relates more to Starr Carter than Hermione Granger… it might be time to up your game.
Whether you’re hoping to slide in some life lessons, bond over shared laughs, or just make it through a Saturday night without someone disappearing into their room for six hours, here are some top picks for the best movies to watch with your teenager.
Laugh-Out-Loud Comedies That Might Just Sneak in a Lesson – or Not.
(Because the best part of having a teenager? They’re finally old enough to watch some wildly inappropriate nonsense. And if nothing else, laughing until you cry over an absurd plotline is basically therapy.)
White Chicks (2004)
Two FBI agents go deep undercover as white socialites in this over-the-top, quotable classic. The comedy is wild—the disguises are wilder.
The Blackening (2023)
A horror-comedy that hilariously flips every Black horror movie trope. If everyone’s Black, who dies first?
House Party (1990)
This one is a classic for a reason. A fun, feel-good comedy that also happens to be a great opportunity for a “Not in My Backyard” check-in. If there’s going to be a wild party, where do your teens think it should be? Of course, you can also watch the 2023 remake, but I’m old school and partial to the original!
Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (1986)
This huge hit is a must-watch. If this film is not on a list of movies for teens, is it even a list? This John Hughes classic has it all. Matthew Broderick brings to life the ultimate ode to what it is to be a Best Friend. The movie has it all – teenage boys, teenage girls and lessons for both on seizing the moment, being a good friend, and facing consequences (eventually).
Movies That Make You Think: Drama, Identity, and Social Justice
(Because sometimes a movie can say what we’ve been trying to for years…)
The Hate U Give (2018)
This book-turned-movie is a powerful story about identity, injustice, and first love. Amandla Stenberg is phenomenal as Starr Carter, a teen finding her voice and learning what it means to do the right thing as she navigates racial tensions and the difficulties of balancing life in her Black neighbourhood against fitting in at her predominantly white private school. This movie opens the door to some real talks high schoolers need about race, privilege, and speaking up—especially those Black teens who may be navigating these issues at school.
Coach Carter (2005)
Based on the true story of a high school basketball coach who believed in discipline, education, and setting high standards. Samuel L. Jackson brings main character Coach Ken Carter to life, showing what it means to expect more from young athletes than just a good game. A great movie about work ethic, leadership, and what it really means to be part of a team and become a young adult.
Remember the Titans (2000)
A classic underdog story where a newly integrated football team must tackle race, leadership, and resilience. With several relatable main characters, this one might hit home for any teen who has ever felt like an outsider at school.
The Price of Protest (2019)
This eye-opening documentary follows young activist Colin Kaepernick as he becomes one of the most controversial athletes of our time while raising the profile of his fight for social justice. It’s a great watch for teens interested in social justice and making a difference.
Boyz N the Hood (1991)
This one isn’t for every family, especially if you have to share your teen’s movie time with younger kids. But if your teen is ready, Boyz N the Hood is one of the most iconic Black coming-of-age films. With an all-star cast playing this group of friends and enemies (Cuba Gooding Jr., Ice Cube, Morris Chestnut, Laurence Fishburne, Angela Bassett, Nia Long, Regina King) and Academy Award nominated Director John Singleton at the helm, the film delivers on all the bases. But full disclosure, this one has some strong language … and, set in south central Los Angeles it covers gang violence, systemic racism, and survival with some pretty hard-hitting realism.
The Hurricane (1999)
A drama based on the true story of Rubin “Hurricane” Carter, a boxer who rises above his troubled childhood to become a champion—only to lose everything when he is wrongfully convicted of murder. This movie has a lot to offer. Denzel Washington plays this role masterfully, earning him an Oscar nomination. Vicellous Shannon plays a determined teenager who refuses to let injustice win. For teens, this film is a masterclass in resilience, truth, and the fight for justice.
Fast Cars, Big Action, and Adrenaline-Packed Fun Movies
(For when you and your teen need speed, explosions, and a lot of questionable decision-making.)
Fast & Furious (2001–present)
High-speed chases, wild heists, and a whole lot of family—this franchise is basically the superhero version of street racing. Expect impossible stunts, one-liners, and Dom Toretto’s unwavering baritone and loyalty to his crew.
Gran Turismo (2023)
Based on a true story, this film follows a teenage gamer whose skills on a racing simulator land him a real-life shot at professional racing. It’s basically every kid’s dream—video games that lead to actual success.
Rush Hour (1998)
Jackie Chan’s insane stunts + Chris Tucker’s nonstop jokes = the buddy-cop movie that still holds up. Action, comedy, and culture clashes make this a classic.
Lethal Weapon 4 (1998)
The ultimate buddy cop duo (Danny Glover and Mel Gibson) return, joined by Jet Li for next-level action sequences.
Passenger 57 (1992)
Wesley Snipes as an airline security expert who ends up on a hijacked plane. Bad move for the bad guys, because you can “always bet on Black”. Sorry. I totally couldn’t help it.
Central Intelligence (2016)
The Rock plays a former high school outcast-turned-CIA agent, dragging Kevin Hart’s ordinary accountant into an insane mission. It’s action and comedy—so basically a win-win.
The Equalizer (2014–2023)
Denzel Washington turns into the most terrifyingly calm problem-solver ever. If he’s coming for you, it’s already over.
Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle (2017) & Jumanji: The Next Level (2019)
When a group of teens gets sucked into a video game, they’re forced to play their way out—learning teamwork, resilience, and how to survive jungle-sized consequences. A fun adventure with hilarious body-swap moments, this one’s great for laughs and “what would you do?” conversations.
Men in Black (1997–2019)
Will Smith and Tommy Lee Jones keep the world safe from aliens while rocking black suits and erasing memories. Sci-fi action meets cool comedy.
Black Excellence on the Big Screen
(Because we love to see it!)
Black Panther (2018)
Ok ok – I know – this one almost goes without saying—almost. Black Panther is pretty much mandatory Black family viewing. Directed by the iconic Ryan Coogler and featuring the incomparable late Chadwick Boseman alongside Letitia Wright, Angela Bassett, and Lupita Nyong’o, this adventure film is more than just a superhero movie. It’s a celebration of Black excellence, African futurism, and what it means to lead. Wakanda Forever.
King Richard (2021)
Will Smith stars as the determined father of Venus and Serena Williams, proving that parenting is a sport.
Feel-Good Sports and Competition Films
(For when your teen needs a reminder that hard work and heart actually pay off.)
Bring It On (2000)
A cult classic cheerleading movie that, on the surface, is all about high-energy routines and team spirit but actually sneaks in some deeper messages about cultural appropriation, privilege, and competition. Kirsten Dunst and Gabrielle Union offer a bit of substance beneath the pom-poms.
Shooting Stars (2023)
This is one of those Black coming-of-age movies meets sports drama. Shooting Stars tells the story of young LeBron James and his high school teammates as they navigate friendship, ambition, and the challenges of being teenage athletes. It’s a great pick for sports-loving teens.
Love & Basketball (2000)
This is one of those romantic movies that offers a perfect blend of first love, ambition, and Black joy. Centred on the lives of childhood friends Monica (Sanaa Lathan) and Quincy (Omar Epps) we are along for the coming-of-age ride as they navigate relationships, dreams, and ambition.
Clever and Creepy: Horror, Thrillers, and Psychological Twists
(For when your teen claims nothing scares them… until it does.)
Get Out (2017) & Us (2019)
Jordan Peele’s horror films blend psychological thrills with a whole social commentary you didn’t see coming. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
Nostalgia, Romance, and Coming-of-Age Movies
The Wood (1990)
The Wood is a heartwarmingly funny trip down memory lane following a group of friends as they reflect on their wild adventures growing up—complete with bad haircuts and questionable fashion choices.
Barbershop (2002)
Funny and full of heart, this movie offers positive messages about community life, generational wisdom, and the importance of standing up for what matters.
Clueless (1995)
This may seem like fluff, but Alicia Silverstone’s old-school classic is a funny movie that offers teens a smart take on self-discovery, friendship, and standing up for what you believe in. It’s full of relatable moments and laughs for every high school student or anyone who ever experienced those teenage years. Plus, laughing with your teen beats wondering what they’re scrolling.
Love Don’t Cost a Thing (2003)
A teen rom-com remake of Can’t Buy Me Love, starring Nick Cannon and Christina Milian. It’s got all the high school tropes—popularity contests, makeovers, and peer pressure—but it also raises questions about self-worth, authenticity, and what really makes someone cool.
Akeelah and the Bee (2006)
A heartwarming film about a young girl and her journey to overcome fear, embrace community, and find confidence. One of Keke Palmer’s earlier roles this film is perfect for boosting your teen’s motivation.
A Shout-Out to Musicals – Complete with Random Dance Sequences Made for Teens
(Admit it, you’re the one who will probably be singing along by the end.)
Wicked (2024)
Before Dorothy dropped into Oz, there was another story—the one you think you know, but with a twist. Wicked tells the tale of Elphaba, the so-called “Wicked Witch of the West,” and her unexpected friendship with Glinda, the Good Witch. Turns out, being “wicked” is a matter of perspective. Starring academy award nominated Cynthia Erivo and featuring show-stopping songs and a powerful story about standing up for what’s right (even when the world calls you the villain), Wicked is a magical reminder that there’s more to people than meets the eye.
Dreamgirls (2006)
A stunning mix of romantic drama meets high school musical, this movie follows the making of a girl group known as “The Dreams” and the antics of their manipulative record executive. Some say it’s a story loosely based on the Supremes and Motown. But fact or fiction, the movie delivers powerhouse performances from the ensemble cast of stars Jamie Foxx, Beyoncé Knowles, and Eddie Murphy. Plus, it has an unforgettable Academy Award-winning performance by Jennifer Hudson.
The Greatest Showman (2017)
Hugh Jackman sings, dances, and brings a circus to life in this dazzling (and very loose) version of P.T. Barnum’s story.
High School Musical (2006)
A basketball star and a science geek break free from stereotypes by… auditioning for the school musical. Cheesy? Yes. Iconic? Also yes.
Feel-Good Films for Family Movie Nights
(Movies that bring everyone together… and actually hold their attention.)
Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse (2018)
A visually stunning film packed with messages about courage, identity, and stepping into your own power. Plus, the soundtrack is everything.
The Princess and the Frog (2009)
Whether your teen wants to indulge in an old favourite or introduce younger siblings to a classic, this movie is about resilience and dreaming big—plus, Tiana’s work ethic is unmatched.
Barbie (2023)
Margot Robbie brings Barbie to life in a visually stunning world where everything is perfect… until it isn’t. Packed with humour, nostalgia, and some unexpected depth, Barbie isn’t just about pink outfits—it’s about power, identity, and what happens when the world isn’t built with you in mind.
No Need to Force the Conversation — Just Click Play
I’m a big believer in movies. They don’t solve everything—your teen still may not refill the ice tray or text back in a reasonable timeframe—but a good movie can be a perfect date night with your kid and offer a way to connect.
Whether it’s a full-on family movie night, a casual “this was one of my favourites growing up” moment, or a random Saturday spent watching whatever’s trending, films have a way of sneaking past the usual walls and opening up space for real conversations.
For me, a good film isn’t just entertaining—they’re a bridge between you, the real world and your teen. They can spark curiosity about history, offer deeper perspectives on identity, or simply remind us of the power of Black stories. Whether it’s a classic that sheds light on a different era, a sports film about resilience, or a comedy that has you both cracking up, movies create shared experiences. And in a time when teens are often more tuned into their phones than family time, that’s worth something.
Catch ‘Em While They’re Making Eye Contact
If there’s one universal truth about parenting teens, it’s this: the second you try to turn something into a whole thing or a “teachable moment,” they will shut it down. Sometimes, the best way to get them talking is to just sit back and enjoy the movie.
But—if you’re looking for a few conversation starters to keep the momentum (and the laughs) going…
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The Best Teen Movies Do More Than Entertain
And if this list of films doesn’t quite hit the mark for your teen? Ask them what they want to watch. Maybe they’re into Black history movies, indie Black cinema that deserves more shine, or a civil rights historical drama. They probably have some good suggestions for something completely unexpected. The point isn’t just the movie—it’s the time together. And if I missed a great movie that is a must-watch, drop it in the comments!
Looking for more great movies to share? Check out Iconic 1990s Black Movies My Kids Have Got to Watch—because if we’re talking about the golden era of Black cinema, it deserves all the love.
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